I didn’t give the least thought that I woke up to run to the bathroom, while every other member was also going about doing their personal chores. Unknowingly I grew up as a flagbearer of patriarchal culture.
The Sweet Sour and Spicy Onam memories of a woman who plays various roles.
As much as the world around added tag to the transgender pregnancy with names and assumptions, the couple has created hope for the queer community.
Puberty in boys is a topic that is often less prioritised as it is a slow process and there is no clear indication like periods. Moreover, in our patriarchal families, fathers refuse to discuss the topic and mothers are shy. Or used to be so! The world is growing with a brand new perspective and …
Covid time have been scary for adults and kids alike. syteeping our with kids is a nightmare. More so, if your child is a naughty little brat. I can understand your. I have been there. I have three little hellions who were ready to burst out at a drop of a hat. And so we …
One of the most relevant choices that is coming into the picture of late is the choice of orientation. But we never bothered to look beyond the pride month. October is LGBTQ history month. It is not some celebration like Halloween that ends once the month ends.
You are a new mother. Feeling motherhood for the first time. You want the best for your child. You make sure your kids don’t fall down, hurt themselves, not even a fever while growing up as you are doing everything perfectly for them.
They live according to the “perfect routine” you create for them. You cuddle them, kiss them, love them unconditionally.
But have you ever thought about what your child wants? They are growing up in the perfect atmosphere you created for them, that they are conditioned to think that this is what is best for them.
Your need for perfection makes them incapable of developing a perspective
You will be shy to talk to others about your changes, which is conveniently termed lack of mood, lack of interest etc. You can ignore this and go on. At some stage, it would be back to normal. But that’s not the case always.
I have seen many couples drift apart right after delivery and used to wonder what changes after having baby. Now, after going through the travail myself, I know why?
When the three fight, I get frustrated. I used to tell myself that I should never have had babies. I used to say that I just want to sit alone. But you know that I don’t mean any of it. They also know it. Real Mom Rakhi Jayashankar On Three Difficult Pregnancies And Unicornuate Uterus
This could be an inappropriate post for many. Many righteous beings might find this post blasphemous. Feel free to pass your judgment. As most of you know, I met my husband when I was 16. After nearly a decade long courtship, we married and had our daughter even before our 1st anniversary. She was preterm …